Don't Force It

You can't force someone to
Get a job
You can't force someone to be
A father to a child who's mother
He decided to sleep with and
Then turn the other cheek
You can't force someone to
Be your friend especially
When they make it clear
That they don't want your
Friendship
You can't force a relationship
ANY RELATIONSHIP
Or for somebody to love you
You can't force people to change
So why do we still try? Because in the back of our mind
We still believe that we can MAKE things happen, when the
Truth of the matter is you can't force anyone to do anything
They have to want it for themselves. I know you can love them til your blue in the face and want them to change but until they want it...thing will REMAIN THE SAME. I'm learning that th easiest thing to do is sit back, relax, and pray. DONT FORCE
It and let God do his work.
Eventually (hopefully sooner than later) things will change for the
Better...before its too late
★Paschanita★

Realization

I'm at the point where I can no longer blame anyone for my circumstances or decesions I have made. I'm a mother and a wife so everything I do I do for them. My husband and child.
I rember how my godmother used
To tell me all the time " Child, nothing comes easy, and I mean nothing".
When I was younger around 8 or 9 I didn't
Believe it because heck, I had everything I needed and more
Never knew how much anything
Cost, the house payments, how
Much was spent on groceries,
Never knew any of that, had absolutelty no worries...and
Thats the way it should be for a child...
Then I got older around 12 and things got bad, and when I say bad, I mean BAD I turned completly to God and just felt completely at peace.
Then I go a little bit older
And my faith begin to decrease
Because the same things kept happening to me. I now understand that God will
Not put more on us than we
Can bear. If he puts it in our
Life its because he knows we
Can overcome it. But
Now that I have my own Family, my beautful daughter and husband things that at one point came so easily are becoming harder and I realize that in fact they DO NOT come easy and I do have to work
For what I need and what I want, for me and my family

~Paschanita N. Menchan~