Hating? Nope! Factual opinion lol.

It amazes me how easily confused people get between "Hating" and just stating your "factual" OPINION. Hating is when you talk crazy things about something like a rapper, a friend, family, whatever the case may be. Like seeing a chick you never met a day in your life and just being like damn she ugly, or look at her clothes, things like that are cruel and hateful ("hating") now when I look at a rapper and see the buffonery he doing i.e. Lil wayne-I wish I could f*uck every girl in the world. Me stating that the song is a reflection on what our society has become, where we feel comfortable to letting our preteen daughters dance to nonsense about smashing! The least he could of done was say something about rapping it up but no....that's not important just as long as you can dance to it...*SMH*...at least when I state my facts lol I don't try to hide my identity I mean really its my opinion and what do I have to be scared of? Honestly. That's another thing about Hating. It amuses me how easy it is for someone to talk sh*t about someone online but decide to stay "anonymous" I mean really get of your "high horse" and get real. Can't nobody really do anything to you for stating your opinion as long as you aren't trying to really tarnish anyone's image. If you bad enough to say it be bad enough to leave your identity. Yeah, of course people sometimes say I hate, well if that's the way they look at it alright, cool,...next...and I keep it moving ;)....

*Panamama*

Business

I don't know what it is but it seems like some one in a business always wants more than anyone else in the business. It also seems like when somebody in charge wants something done they want it done exactly when they want it and how they want it. To me (even though I'm not really a business person) everyone's opinions and thoughts should matter. I understand that you can't always accommodate everyone's needs, but to keep a happy business their opinions and thoughts should at least be considered. I think a business would be more productive if everyone came to a compromise about what would be best for the company...again I speak from a non-business perspective and am speaking from my personal thoughts. When you're in a business you have to give just like you receive. One person can not do more than anyone it should be a fair share to make sure that every one carries the same workload. Yes, I know there has to be a "Manager" or a "Boss" but that doesn't mean that they should have to carry EVERYTHING on their shoulders. They may have to carry a little more than others but that's what they are there for to GUIDE and LEAD the people in the business not DICTATE every single thing that goes on. The worst form of managing is MICRO-managing. I mean really who wants to be watched and corrected for every single thing they do? I know I would not. I also realize that when your in a business you cant just come up with an idea and not speak to your boss first to get their approval. That's just how it goes. Sometimes when you have a small business and things don't seem to work out and peoples personal emotions start to get involved more than anything else its time to cut your loses and move on. Hey, you can't make everyone happy all the time right. My final thoughts are DON'T EVER MIX BUSINESS WITH PLEASURE its like oil and water, they just don't go together! What are your thoughts on how a business (especially smaller one) be handled?

*Panamama*

What to do?...

What do you do when you feel like you have given somebody your all and they take it for granted? Do you give up and turn away? Do you fight for what you want? This is something I deal with on a regular basis. It could just be me being over sensitive over analyzing things. I know women deal with situations differently then men but that doesn't make us wrong or overly sensitive. The man may feel as if he is giving everything he can but the woman may feel as if its all a joke. So what do we do to make ourselves feel better? Do we just hold it all in or let it all out. Its complicated. When you let it all out at once the other person may feel like you are trying to hurt their feelings or tell them all their faults. When you hold it in eventually it becomes to much and you will explode. The only thing I know to do is talk to each other, get your space when and if you need it, respect each other, and love them through it all. Eventually everything will get better. Also, pray its a huge factor, everyone should have God in their relationships to strengthen it and help it grow

*Panamama*

MUSIC?

It's really funny to me when people describe to me what music is. I mean really is music something that makes you want to "pop your booty", make babies, or just act a fool? I think our society has forgotten what music is. Luther Vandross made music, The Isley brothers made music, Crash Crew made music, Michael Jackson (RIP) made music, these are just a few that made good music, music that went through your body and touched your soul. Now it seems that the music industry has sunken to a new all time low where we are dancing to a song called "Your a Jerk" I mean really you couldn't think of anything better. I'm not hating because they are still getting that paper, but dang when was the last time you heard music that meant something other than shaking your fatty? I mean really. So far I have only heard of one artist that truly does that, Deep DuVal the Dictator of Rebel Musick. Some people may find his genre of music hard to listen to because he's not talking about dropping down spread eagle or riding full speed in a lambo. Nope! he spits about politics, family, hell he even spits in Arabic! How many rappers you know do that? I think its time we step our game up I mean if T-pain can get a deal with all that darn auto-tune he use why not sign somebody with real talent.

*Panamama*

www.rebelmusick.com/deepduval