Sunday, June 28, 2009

What to do?...

What do you do when you feel like you have given somebody your all and they take it for granted? Do you give up and turn away? Do you fight for what you want? This is something I deal with on a regular basis. It could just be me being over sensitive over analyzing things. I know women deal with situations differently then men but that doesn't make us wrong or overly sensitive. The man may feel as if he is giving everything he can but the woman may feel as if its all a joke. So what do we do to make ourselves feel better? Do we just hold it all in or let it all out. Its complicated. When you let it all out at once the other person may feel like you are trying to hurt their feelings or tell them all their faults. When you hold it in eventually it becomes to much and you will explode. The only thing I know to do is talk to each other, get your space when and if you need it, respect each other, and love them through it all. Eventually everything will get better. Also, pray its a huge factor, everyone should have God in their relationships to strengthen it and help it grow

*Panamama*

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