Just because someone calls you their friend does not mean they are. It so easy to think that some is truly your friend. I am so quick to befriend anyone that speaks to me, automatically the best about that person, trusting them, failing to realize that trust isn't just given, its earned. You just can't let someone flip through the pages of the book called your life, they have to start at the first page and get to the very end, if they truly want to be a friend. I can really count on one hand how many "friends" I have, I used to think I had tons til I realized they were there just to benefit their own needs, and I was just a step to get there...people have to learn to pick there friends carefully, me personally, I need a friend that is loyal, honest, fun, an uplifter...etc, someone to help me grow not bash me down...I need to work on myself too to be able to be a better friend to people that I already call friend...so what are you doing to be a friend.
*Panamama*
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