Just as this little kitten sees itself as a majestic lion, you should see yourself more than what people see/think of you.
Although a flower needs sunlight and water to grow, the flower can not water its self or give itself the necessary sunlight. The flower needs help, needs someone to water it, needs someone to put it in the sun so it may flourish. Just like the flower people need help to grow too.
A lot of people always tend to blame their self esteem issues on someone or something else, "I was abused as a child", "evey man/woman I have ever been with had cheated, and made me feel as if I was not good enough"...when in reality that shouldn't affect how YOU feel about YOU! Yes these type of things may make you feel horrible at the moment but you have to know that you are bigger and better than your circumstances and they work to make you stronger and wiser! You have to know what type of person you are, your strengths, and your weaknesses. No one else should be able to tell you what you are, because you know. I know things may look/get so bad that you can not help but feel helpless, unworthy, alone. But you have to be able to get up, look in the mirror and say if I don't have anybody I have God and the person in the mirror. You have to be able to lift your self up and respect yourself! Now like the flower you are going to need help to grow and stay in your self-esteem/respect. The way to do this is surround yourself with people that are going to continually push you and motivate you, this way you can stay in that positivity and push yourself harder, if u surround yourself with negativity...people that bash and criticize everything you do then yes you start to feel. Ad about yourself and don't see any good in you what so ever. So forget them surround yourself with happiness, love, and positivity and you will see a change for the better.
DONT LET YOUR PAST DICTATE YOUR FUTURE
LOVE YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT
~Paschanita N. Menchan~
A lot of people always tend to blame their self esteem issues on someone or something else, "I was abused as a child", "evey man/woman I have ever been with had cheated, and made me feel as if I was not good enough"...when in reality that shouldn't affect how YOU feel about YOU! Yes these type of things may make you feel horrible at the moment but you have to know that you are bigger and better than your circumstances and they work to make you stronger and wiser! You have to know what type of person you are, your strengths, and your weaknesses. No one else should be able to tell you what you are, because you know. I know things may look/get so bad that you can not help but feel helpless, unworthy, alone. But you have to be able to get up, look in the mirror and say if I don't have anybody I have God and the person in the mirror. You have to be able to lift your self up and respect yourself! Now like the flower you are going to need help to grow and stay in your self-esteem/respect. The way to do this is surround yourself with people that are going to continually push you and motivate you, this way you can stay in that positivity and push yourself harder, if u surround yourself with negativity...people that bash and criticize everything you do then yes you start to feel. Ad about yourself and don't see any good in you what so ever. So forget them surround yourself with happiness, love, and positivity and you will see a change for the better.
DONT LET YOUR PAST DICTATE YOUR FUTURE
LOVE YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT
~Paschanita N. Menchan~
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