Sunday, July 12, 2009

THINK...

If people would just THINK before they acted. THINK before they said something that hurt the one they truly love or care about, or just simply have any type of feelings for what so ever. THINK before they destroyed something they may never possibly ever have a chance of getting a hold of again. Why is it so hard to just THINK before you do something that can change your life FOREVER? Is it fear, stupidity, not thinking, hatered or something else? Sometimes we do things based soley on emotions. Saying that one thing that we know is going to set off that other person, or reacting in a way that may damage not only your future but someone else's. It's a hard thing for A LOT of people to grasp, that you have to THINK before you speak or act. We become so caught up in our emotions, the way we see things, that we dont THINK * AT THAT MOMENT* what the consequences may be. As hard as it may seem when you feel that anger rising the best thing to do is leave, walk away, go to a quiet place and then come back and talk to see if a resoulution can be reached (if at all possible)...these are simply solutions to how issues can be resolved simply by THINKING...*if only it was really that easy*...I know me, and i know how quick tempered I can become and the "right" words to say to someone that I feel has wronged me...and as f'd up as that may sound, its the truth , and sometimes that's what it takes to recognize when you are doing wrong so you can become a solution to a problem instead of being the problem...so the solution for myself is to THINK before everythin) I do/say because words hurt, and before EVERYTHING changes I (and im sure some of you need to sit back...breath...and......THINK...

*Panamam09*
~LISTENIN TO "MAD" -NEYO

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